More business ventures in Ek Balam

During this same visit, Holly’s assignment was with “Estetica Gabi” (hairstylist). This was the second trip that Holly & I took to the village to train Gabi. This time, they met several times over the 4 days that we were there and Gabi got to experience 3 more haircuts. Holly suggested to Gabi to look into the cost of the hair styling school in Valladolid. She continued to train her on how to run a hair salon, along with several techniques including combing, parting, trimming with tension, and angling the comb. I was the fortunate one that Gabi got to practice on!! Three hours of having my hair combed, was like heaven on earth! She needed to get comfortable with holding scissors and a comb at the same time, along with using the right pressure. Then, she even cut my hair! (She can practice on me anytime!)

It was a double blessing for me because I got to see another young woman learn how to “fish”, while being able to be the connecter of a foreign woman sharing her passion in Ek Balam! I love to see the interactions and lessons that both woman are teaching each other. While Gabi was learning about her new business, she was seeing how God is in the center of all things! At the same time, Holly was learning how to be resourceful in a simple lifestyle, along with a new level of patience. That’s the first sign of a good teacher, of which she truly is! I’m fortunate to be a part of many first experiences and to observe growth amongst foreigners and villagers. Thanks Holly, for offering your time, resources, and talents; for showing God’s love; and for giving Gabi an opportunity that will make a difference in who she becomes!

Actually, now there is a difference in her eternal life too.. Yes, she and her mom both now have Jesus in their hearts and lives! On my following trip out to the village, I was drawn to her casa by the Holy Spirit; or talvez (maybe) it was my own desire to give Gabi some practice with combing hair (Or talvez a little of both. Ha-ha!)!! I was too late! She was “practiced out” because she had just finished with her third brothers’ haircut when I arrived. She, her mom and I began talking about the young man who is visiting her from another small town, once a week. He is courting her in the proper way. Her mom informed me that either she, or one of Gabi’s siblings is always around when he is there. They would not be allowed to go out for a walk after dusk, just the two of them, for example. There are very specific regulations for courting and dating within the Mayan culture (including marriage proposals). Gabi did say that they would be allowed to be at the same function at night, however. I find their traditions to be very respectful and interesting! This led right into my personal advise for finding out if he is the ultimo costilla (“last rib“.. A common saying that they use, which goes back to the beginning when Adam’s rib went to Eve)! Prayer, seeking wisdom and confirmations from God are first and foremost, being that He is the One who creates & molds every match made in heaven (like: Holly & Steve)! We talked about many other things like a person’s character & interests; but most important is his relationship with the Lord. I reminded her of the Pastor’s message at Leity’s wedding (you know.. The 3 strand rope story). When I glanced over at Paulina, Gabi’s mom, I asked her what she thought. She said, that I would know more about these things because I read the bible & understand more than she does. That’s what opened the door to them receiving the free gift of salvation. They were interested in having the Holy Spirit enter their bodies so that they could have that Spirit to spirit communication, which will help them to understand more of the bible too. God’s timing is perfect!

Rosa's Ropas

I know it has been a while since I have blogged, to bring everyone up to speed let me go back to April 9th and share this story about Rosa's Ropas.

Holly & Steve Taft (friends from Oregon) and I arrived with a car full of ropas (clothes). The Lord had given each of us an assignment for our stay. Mine was with Rosa’s Ropas. She was surprised to see several bags of new inventory being unloaded (thanks to Claudia, Grisela, Krystal and others who donated). It had been 5 months since we got clothes donated and she was excited to see that the merchandise was in great condition.

After one year of being open for business, I sat down to share with her, that I believe God has a new plan for her tienda (store). (Thanks Elena for the confirming word you gave me!) He told me that she has learned a lot about running a business and that it was time for me to step back and give her more responsibilities. He trusts her to be in charge of doing all of the pricing on her own. She broke a smile at that!! I told her I’d be giving her the pricing markers for her to be able to start with the 300 pieces that we dropped off. She was excited and nervous at the same time (a common reaction to change, for all of us!). She said she didn’t know if she could do it; but I told her that I, along with God, have confidence that she is ready for this! That little smile squeaked out again! I explained that instead of me doing the monthly accounting and showing her the checks and balances, that she would be showing me now. She seemed to be comfortable with this, however, she wasn’t so sure about learning how to use the computer and excel spreadsheet. I told her, “si, se puede. (yes, you can)! Gabi will also be learning at the same time to be able to do her hair salon accounting, so you can help each other.”

The next day, I handed her the markers and told her to pray that the Lord would help her to price each item. She wanted me to help, but I just encouraged her because I knew it was time to let go (it can be hard for a teacher to let go of markers!! Hee-hee!). Later that afternoon, she was proud of herself for completing the task. As always, a few interesting conversations were opened up in-between all of this training. Rosa needed to come clean about a layaway situation. We had previously decided that no merchandise would leave the store unless it was paid in full. However, one woman somehow got out the door with several items without paying, a few months ago. She promised to pay Rosa a month later, as she was escaping. It caught Rosa by surprise and she didn’t know what to do. Over the next few months, she paid several visits to “the escaper” to ask for the money. One excuse after another was followed by promises and more promises. The good thing is that I was able to see Rosa’s honesty through this situation. She could have easily covered it up and I would have never known. She chose to do the right thing instead.

At one point, Rosa was comfortable enough to ask me some questions about American values. She had met a European girl who had told Rosa that in her country, there’s a lot of sexual promiscuity (pre-marital sex etc.). She went on to say that if a married person gets bored with his/her partner, it’s common for them to go find someone else to fulfill their needs. Rosa told me that in E.B., this is not acceptable and that if it happened, that person would be insulted by the entire village (to the point that he/she would practically be ex-communicated). “In this small town, everybody knows everything”, she said. She added that divorce is extremely rare. Rosa was very curious to know what it‘s like in the States. I told her that in all parts of the world, there are sects of people that think and behave like her European informant. However, Christian values differ. Ephesians 5.3: But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. I am so glad that Rosa has opened up more and more over time, allowing me to speak truth into her life.

At the end of the visit, I shared with her that the Lord wants them (the villagers) to fulfill their own purposes and feel a sense of esteem for learning something new that they can do on their own. It’s one thing to bring free clothes to the park and its another thing to brings funds to a village and for a family to have a source of income (a percentage goes to Rosa, while a percentage goes towards the village goals, that the women will vote on). So, one woman has now learned how to “fish” and she loves it! I expressed to her how proud I am of her and I believe she is pleased with herself, too! She was happy about the increase in the percentage that she will now be receiving as well!! Thank You Father, for all that You are doing in, through and with Rosa!